What NOT to do when you are raising a child...

Prologue There are plenty of books which tell you what to do when raising a kid. So, I will try to put down things you should not do. Of course, it also is a catchy phrase and there are fewer NOTs than all DOs.  This is still a work in progress, since my dad-hood hasn't progressed well beyond a toddler-hood. But my son has graduated his new-born and infant stages. I wouldn't say flying colors here because you should NEVER judge how your kid is doing. Well - this can be the #1 thing to not do - don't judge your child! And I will talk about it later on why you shouldn't do that. But to start off I can definitely write down what we (me and my wife) have experienced so far.  All you new parents there - this is no way a definition of how it would be with your children. Each child is different, but hey, again they are kids, so more or less you would have similar situations. I am no doctor or a child psychologist, though all parents at some point have googled enough to write a...